How To Keep Your “BFF’ From Ruining Your Relationship

Of course you trust friends of yours. You both share secrets you would not tell your own mother. You make fun of other people together, and share advise on who you should date and who you should not. This is the one friend that is closer to you than your brother or sister but the truth is, that same person can ruin your life.the saying that it one’s own enemies are within is very true.

There are so many true life stories of friends breaking up marriages and relationships. Some ladies broke up with their fiancés only to find out that he was dating their best friend all the while(not to say that the jerk is not partly to blame). Or that she was too jealous to see you in a relationship and just wants you to be as lonely as she was.

Yes these girls or guys are important in your life, who else would you vent your frustrations to?

Well, while you are keeping your girls close to your heart and secrets be sure to keep them as far from your man (or woman as the case may be). Of course they should know each other and meet once in a long while with you in attendance. Here are some other rules you should remember to protect your man from your friends:

a)make introductions on a first serious date to ensure that everyone knows he is out of bounds.

b)do not allow your friends visit your man without you: trust me, you wont want to know what will happen if you are not there.

c)don’t let your man get to friendly with your girls, they might just think that he is mr perfect and make passes at him. Do not encourage him

d)don’t give your girls his number: they may just call him for a nice cup of tea that may become a nice sleepover. any contact with him should be done through you.

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